1. This little flurry started with Bron's comments.
From Re: social software for deeper discussions by bronwynh on Monday, 3 September 2007 10:30:00 p.m.:
I have recently decided to spend more time with real flesh and blood, physically accessible friends and to ring fence my virtual networks as the number i belong to is taking up more and more time and impacting on my domestic harmony and peace of mind. I wonder if anyone else is feeling the same?
I won't e-mail you next time I need to talk to you Bron: I'll phone!! I'm sure most of us hqve done something like this sometime . . .
2. There is a lot of wisdom scattered over these last few posts here, to do with managing our relationships and our lives, habits, best tools, purpose, focus, goals and meaning.
3. And an aside, the Dark Side of social networking software . . .
We've had some comment on Quechup - which now has scores of angry posts in the blogosphere because of their e-mail invites that get sent.
I got this message today, with x x x being an old address of mine:
Dear Derek,
Someone researched your reputation on Rapleaf by searching " x x x ".
To view (or update) your profile, check out:
http://www.rapleaf.com/pub/Derek-Chirnside
Even though your profile is incomplete, the person who searched you found some basic reputational information on you. At Rapleaf, you can find such information as age, location, history, social network links, and more on over 60 million people.
-Your friends at Rapleaf.com
www.rapleaf.com
4. And Sylvia, I did notice you didn't post, I assumed I had the formal end-date for this conversation wrong. :-) Thanks once again.
-Derek